'I had to terminate them with no notice': Woman has to fire her in-laws for making her company lose $5000

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    Font - AIW for firing my in- laws? Background: I own a small business where we use independent contractors for client projects. After being asked by my two sisters-in-law and my brother, I brought all three of them on at my company (again as independent contractors not employees- this is important).
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    Font - Cut to a couple of years later, I had to fire my sister-in-law from my company due to multiple mistakes that cost us a lot of money. Although my business partner wanted to terminate her after her third mistake the previous summer, I convinced him to allow her to stay given that my sister-in- law was pregnant. We monitored her work during her probationary period and later gave her more clients. However, during my maternity leave, she made a significant graphic design mistake that resulted
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    Font - Eventually, my business partner informed me that we needed to fire her. After much discussion with my business partner, we gave her two months' notice to find another job (per my request to try and soften the blow). She refused to talk to me after our admin delivered the news and I tried to reach out to my other two in-laws to explain but they called me unprofessional and blocked me. I had to end my maternity leave early 3 months early to help pick up the pieces.
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    Font - During the transition of moving her clients to other contractors, we discovered that she had deleted client files, causing us to dock her pay for the time the new contractor had to use to recreate those files as best as possible. As deleting proprietary client files violated her contract legal informed us that is what needed to happen. She threatened our company saying if we didn't pay her what we had to dock she would consider the contract itself void and would proceed to take company pr
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    Font - I have tried to explain that it was nothing personal and that I would have never even talked about the money we lost again, it just didn't work out them working for me and that was ok. But my in-laws have cut me off completely. I also had no intention of firing the other two until we were threatened and legal told me I had to. They have badmouthed me as a person and business owner and have also ignored my husband and our children for the last year. Am I wrong?
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    Font - hammond667 days ago Not wrong. And your better off without them. ↑ 106 Reply Share
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    Font - EggplantIll4927. 7 days ago never mix business and in laws you weren't wrong but you cut off their income due to incompetence. They can't have that. All you can do is refuse to discuss it on advice of your corporate attorneys. 77 Reply Share
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    Rectangle - Piddy3825 7 days ago they only thing you did wrong was to hire them in the first place... ↑ 57 ↓ Reply Share
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    Font - Infamous_Flounder_61. 7 days ago Only thing you did wrong was not firing her the first time your partner recommended. The fact that she went out of her way to try to sabotage work is disgusting and shows what a terrible person she is...
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    Font - And of course your attorney is right. If anything your in laws response only serves to strengthen their recommendation to terminate all in-laws as all signs show she would have absolutely had her relatives take client files and try to screw you.
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    Font - I'm going to assume you're married since you were on maternity leave and they're in-laws (not in laws through a sibling being married). What they did was with your families livelihood. I hope your husband is understanding and on board with you because this is, quite frankly, a NC situation if you want my honest opinion.
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    Font - A simple termination for incompetence (which took you away from your child when you should have been healing and bonding) turned into threats to steal clients and an attempt to harm your business further (on top of losing you 5k and several clients). Rather than take responsibility for their shitty daughter/sister they double down on you.
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    Font - YOU didn't fire them for no reason, their sister/sister in law or whatever, cost them their jobs because of her actions. Had she left on good terms or even neutral terms, the others would have their jobs still. Hell I'd say you should be grateful she showed her hand so early cuz who knows what sort of financial problems she could have caused (not to mention attorney fees for having to take her to court for breach of contract by stealing clients on company time)
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    Font - i_miss_buddy 7 days ago Why do you think that you're wrong? It seems straightforward to me. Not wrong.
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    Font - ro AlwaysRighteous 7 days ago Why would you hire family? Huge mistake as you now see. I was going to go into a partnership with my old friend and former boss... then he started getting his wife involved. Nope. Sorry. When it's real estate, suddenly everyone's wife is an expert and wants to 'help'. Nope. Nope. Nope. My GF too, but she knows nothing about it, so that's a big NO!

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